A Life of Surrender

As I ponder my last post, I want to express to you that I am nobody. Please, as you read my words on surrender and choosing “here”, do not put me on a pedestal. I don’t belong there.  I am just a normal average girl that struggles the same as every other girl. Maybe more.

Don’t think for one second that my sacrifice is any harder than yours. It’s not.

Jim Elliot said it best, “Missionaries are very human folks just doing what they’re asked. Simply a bunch of nobodies trying to exalt Somebody.

And since I view every Christian believer as a missionary, wherever they happen to live, we are just a bunch of nobodies trying to exalt our beloved Somebody, aren’t we?

The truth is, we all, each one of us, if we are living a life surrendered to His will, have our own crosses to bear.  Our own sacrifices to make.  They all look different, but they all feel very much the same.  And most of those sacrifices, no matter where we live on the globe are mostly made up of those small moments woven in and throughout our days.

Surrender is usually dying to self on a daily basis and most often found in the mundane.” Jennie Allen, Anything

Following the Lord and doing what He asks of you isn’t always easy.  It is a long obedience, one of many mundane moments.  It isn’t all lights and fame and excitement.  It’s a lot of little moments of choosing to live for the unseen. Moments that can be downright difficult. But ones that can be equally beautiful.

Someone asked me, “What does a life of sacrifice look like? What exactly does living in surrender mean?”

I think a life of surrender means being so in love with our Savior that we willingly fling up our hands and tell Him we are willing to do whatever He asks of us, no matter what that means.  And, doing it every day, again and again. 

 Therefore I urge your brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship.  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:1-2

Offering the life He has given us back to Him, to be used however He wishes.  Even if that means small things.  Things like making your husband’s favorite dinner, or chatting with the lady in line in front of you at the grocery store, or rubbing your son’s back when you are so tired and all you can think about is crawling into bed.

It means starting out each day with the precious Savior with open hands and saying, How can I serve You today? 

It means living with Heaven in view and being about kingdom work, even in the midst of car repairs, haircuts, and Little League. It’s seeing your life and the people in it through HIS eyes. And using the gifts he has given you, “your thing”, to serve as you look towards Heaven.

What if heaven and God and forever became our normal? Wouldn’t that change everything?”- Jennie Allen, Anything

It is being willing, because of love, to pray this prayer of Betty Scott Stam,

Lord, I give up all my own plans and purposes, all my own desires and hopes, and accept Thy will for my life.  I give myself, my life, my all utterly to Thee to be Thine forever.  Fill me and seal me with Your Holy Spirit.  Use me as Thou wilt, send me where Thou wilt, work out Thy whole will in my life at any cost, now and forever.

And trusting Him with the outcome.


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  • MS

    I feel the same way. People admire me and I don’t like it. I told a B.S. I was in while we were on home assignment, ‘I’m so afraid you won’t be my friend because I seem to you something super spiritual or perfect because of what I do. I’m not. I’m just like you with kids and a messy house and a husband to love. I just do it in a different location.’ You are so right to share Jim Elliot’s quote! I will use that in our next update for sure! Thank you for sharing!

  • Nicole Auld

    Joy, this is a very well said post. Thank you for shining for our KING!:) Keep shining!

  • Kelli Woodford

    Gotta share this one.

    Really a needed message in many circles where “living surrendered” can only mean one thing: overseas missions.

    You have a unique perspective here, because of your life calling, and I am so thankful you are using it to exalt Him, not the work of your hands.

    Thank you for setting others free today . . . free to surrender to Jesus, not guilt.

  • Anonymous

    Thank you Joy for this. Beautiful! I think if we were all living as missionaries wherever we lived we wouldn’t feel like your sacrifice is greater, but truthfully it is so easy to get comfortable when your surrounding hasn’t changed…. being the hands and feet of Jesus, no matter where you live, is hard, uncomfortable and downright terrifying at times…I pray that we would ALL see our location as our mission field because eternity is on the line. I love you sweet friend and you are an inspiration to me!

  • Anonymous

    WOW! Shared this on FB….just beautiful. We are just a bunch of nobodies serving SOMEBODY. He is worthy! My favorite sentence today is this:

    “It means starting out each day with the precious Savior with open hands and saying, How can I serve You today? ”

    This a great reminder for me…I don’t think there has been a day I woke up and said to my LORD, ” This is your day how can I serve YOU?” I have plans that I have made to get stuff done…for the kids, for my husband, for myself! As I think back, I have thanked Him, praised Him for the day He has made but never full surrendered myself! WOW! wow wow…..Thank you for this food for thought, for this word of wisdom that I can now apply to my life. GOD Bless!

  • jen key

    what a great followup to your last post! BTW you did not come across as being more sacrificing or deserving a pedestal at all!!!! I am always encouraged by your writing because it is so real and humble. Thank you for sharing your journey with internet land.:) I think I am going to have to get that Jennie Allen book! looks like a great read. blessings to you and yours, jen in al

  • http://www.womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com womenlivingwell

    Yes! This is where it’s at – full surrender – even in the daily little things!!! You’ve done it again Miss Joy – keep writing!!! The world needs your voice!!
    Love you,
    Coutney

  • Rakel Thurman

    Joy, I love you ….thank you for sharing. This is what it is all about….JESUS…finding our joy in HIM…rooted in HIM, in the midst of the mundane… How could we ever make it if we did not fix our eyes on Jesus the Author and the Finisher of our faith…who for the hope set before Him endured the cross…Thank you for sharing reality!!

  • tcantrell

    Loving your blog! My book “anything” should be in tomorrow….thanks for the recommendation!

  • Tonya Daniels

    Well said my friend. It is about choosing everyday which God we will serve, that is what makes us who we truly are, no matter where we are in life. Thank you for inspiring me today! Blessings to you!

  • http://lifeofamissionarywife.blogspot.com/ Kaylee

    I think, as a missionary, this is one of the hardest things to explain and get through to people! I am no different than any other woman, I just said “yes” to the job God set before my husband and me. Thank you for writing!

  • Laura

    another wonderful post…especially regarding the mundane things of life. And, i used your thoughts today as my little two year old spilled his apple juice all over the floor…i was reminded, ‘ok, how can i serve God in this little moment.’ and, it was to just clean up the floor without fussing at my child! so thankful for your encouraging words!

  • Erin Messing

    Oh, yes! Your words have sunk deep into my heart. A much needed message for this mama. Thank you for speaking beautiful truth.

  • Sheila Laurence

    I think you might enjoy this post by another missionary mom in Belize. I have read it several times. http://brockintons.blogspot.com/2012/05/im-just-like-you.html. One of the things she said in this post is Just read this, “God doesn’t call the qualified, he qualifies the called.” I always think I am not qualified, but I surely limit God when I think that.

  • Holli

    It is a long obedience, one of many mundane moments. It isn’t all lights and fame and excitement. It’s a lot of little moments of choosing to live for the unseen. Moments that can be downright difficult. But ones that can be equally beautiful.

    This is great statement and in my mind it also describes exactly what being a mother is all about. Interesting similarities.

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  • http://thechuppies.blogspot.com/ Kara @ The Chuppies

    Love this Joy :)
    Just such a good reminder that it’s all about being willing to be
    where…and who…He wants me to be.
    That prayer by Better Stam is so good…and so what I want my response to be to His leading.

  • Michelle Spahr

    Thank you, Joy, for sharing from the depths of your heart. I am a new follower of yours, a fellow homeschool mom living life on mission with my family, a partner in ministry with my husband who is a pastor, and a child with a deep love for my Savior. What a precious gift it is to encourage one another through media, being able to share life and stories, struggles and victories, and faith with others who we would most likely never cross paths with while here on earth. Thank you for sharing and for following Jesus with all your heart. I lift you up. May you be blessed today.

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