Cultivating a Heart for Motherhood-The Significance

On Monday we started talking about the significance of mothering.

It is hard to see the big picture when we are in the middle of the mess of everyday, isn’t it? Um, yes, and a hearty AMEN. But, stop with me for just a quick second and let’s take a look….and get inspired!

Imagine with me for a moment what would happen if we truly understood and embraced our job as mothers. What if we chose to look at ourselves as world changers? What if in His strength and by His might, we could truly change this world for the better by the way we raise our children?

What if we looked not just at the here and now (the dirty dishes, diapers, messes, task after task), but at the future? And not only our child’s future, but the future of many generations to come?  Galatians 6:9 says, “Let us not grow weary while doing good, in due season we shall reap if we faint not. ”

She [a mother] is handling never-dying souls. She’s daily conducting heart surgery on eternal spirts whose forever destinies are influenced most profoundly by the hands that rock their cradles, wipe their noses…. open their Bibles, prepare their after-school snacks, and turn off their bedroom lights. Those motherly hands are molding characters which will become men and women who will turn the world upside down either for good or for evil. Now that’s a job that counts. ” – Mark Chanski, Womanly Dominion

It’s a big calling….a calling that will last forever!

I love these thoughts:

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Throughout history we can see examples of how one woman greatly influenced and even changed history by embracing motherhood.

One example of this is Sarah Edwards, wife of Jonathan Edwards.  Sarah supported her husband and his very long works hours and devoted herself whole-heartedly to the raising of their 8 children. And what was her legacy?

Throughout the generations can be traced: 11 college presidents, 65 professors, 100 lawyers, 30 judges, 66 physicians, 80 holders of public office, 3 mayors of large cities, 3 state governors, 1 controller of the US treasury, 3 US senators, 1 Vice-President of the US .

Now, hear me out on this one. I’m not saying that big important professions is the goal. A long line of passionate-for-Jesus anything would have been equally impressive.  This list is simply showing just how far-reaching our mothering can be!! We are raising mighty arrows for the Kingdom….arrows that will go from our house and shoot out to the world for generations to come!

Psalm 127:5, ” Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.”

 Now, I want you to take a few moments and think all of this through.  As you read this, what is the Lord speaking to your heart? What is your desire or your vision for your home and mothering? Take a few minutes in a quiet place with a cup of something hot and sit quietly and dream.  Then write out what your vision looks like.

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I know what you are thinking. Great. Wonderful. That sounds so nice. I like the ideal, but I am so far from that ideal in my everyday life. Where I live, my everyday existence is far from victorious. My day to day involves lots of poopy diapers, sippy cups, laundry, and grubby fingers. How can I live intentionally when I can’t even get a shower?

I’m so glad you asked because that is exactly where we will begin next week! Next Monday we will look at 3 big obstacles we face as mamas.  

I hope you’ll join me.  As always, I invite you subscribe so you don’t miss anything! 

Here is a link to all previous posts in this series.

What do you think so far? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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  • Natashad

    Thank you for doing this, Joy! I am really enjoying this series and the thought-provoking activities. May we all be “grace full” mamas!!!!

  • Kristin

    Gal 6:9 is why I am here. I don’t want to grow weary in well doing. So many moms when they get to the stage I am at start to look to the future. I want to be the mom for my youngest I was for the older ones. Remembering to enjoy her. Thanks for the series.

  • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

    I read this before my morning run and then spent my run praying for my home and family. I am a mom who’s far from the ideal, Joy, and I’m ready for Monday!

  • Katie Vrajich

    I woke up this morning with incredibly similar thoughts. Thank you for sharing, we are so blessed to be able to have that much influence! If only I could remember what I was creating all the time, instead of just how I am being destroyed. :)

  • http://abidingbythecross.blogspot.com/ Laura

    Your ‘vision for my home’ printable reminded me of an older woman in my life that early on in my marriage encouraged me to create a home that reflects our heavenly home. So, in thinking along those lines…here are some things i thought of that would make our homes reflect heaven:

    Christ-centered
    full of light
    lovingkindness
    happy
    hospitable
    clean
    orderly
    beauty
    full of life

    (and, yes, i am glancing around my house now, and my home has a long way to go to reflect heaven!!!) enjoying this series, thanks!

  • http://touchedthehem.blogspot.com/ Jessica

    I enjoy the challenges motherhood brings. God’s strength is made perfect in my weakness! This series is a great reminder of the big picture. I type this as my 14 year old is out with the youth ministry soul winning in highschools around our city. She led a whole foot ball team to Jesus last week. This is what we are here for. This is what we are raising our children to do. We have been doing a study on the fruit of the spirit. We are on the person of the Holy Spirit. I have been teaching my girls (3 ages 2, 5, 14) to acknowledge His presence in their daily lives. I love how he shows up and touches them as we talk about him. The are filled with joy. Sometimes they cry as he heals their hearts. This is what being a homeschool mom is all about. :-) I wouldn’t trade it for the world! Being a mom is teaching them what the world will not! We will have great treasure stored up in heaven for our obedience. No matter what the cost. Those who are the least will be the greatest in the kingdom.

  • Earline Medina

    I’m being blessed by this series and want to thank you from the bottom of my heart!

    Earline

  • http://cultivating-hope.blogspot.com/ Lecias

    I have seen this first hand in our own family. My godly grandmother, who has been the biggest influence on my life, often told me of her grandmother, who was a huge influence on her life. My granny also influenced the life of my children in mighty ways. Now, I see them going out and spreading God’s Word through word and action. God used these women in ways I will never truly understand until I get to heaven. I am here to be used by God because these women showed me the way.

  • A.Harry

    Thank you so much for these inspiring words! I have been struggling with feelings of resentment and bone-tired exhaustion and definitely need the reminder that I’m not just a maid, cook, and referee. I’m not sure I ever really considered a vision for my home. I think I picture myself at the bottom sweeping crumbs when I should visualize myself at the top shaping souls, managing the household mood, and crafting our future. Thank you for this refreshing and empowering perspective!

  • Jolynn H.

    I am so thankful for this Series. I look forward to it each week! It helps me to stay focused on WHY I am a mother – to glorify our Lord Jesus Christ – through mothering my child. It’s absolutely all too easy to forget that during the daily tasks we find ourselves immersed in with children. This series is a huge help for me right now as I strive to become a stronger Christian mother. Thank you so much for sharing your words, knowledge and these exercises with us. God Bless you!

  • Heather

    I have been so encouraged by this series, Joy. Thank you!

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  • Shawna

    Okay, I’ll start with a confession. Last week when I read part 1, I couldn’t bring myself back to read part 2. That verse from Titus had me ticked! I took it as meaning this is all my life is about being a mother and that just isn’t acceptable in my mind since I don’t enjoy motherhood. I have no idea what made me return. But I’m glad I did. Day 2 made me feel empowered. Thank you for that.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/laura.cheek07 Laura Cheek

    Thank you for sharing this with the world! I started doing this study last week and I am on the 2nd one this week The Significance, which I have stretched into 3 days this week. I have prayed for so long for answers on how to be a godly parent and this study has blessed me and my family. Thank you too for the free e book!! I can’t to read it!